DK, Is there a difference in the pace in PP? It’s interesting what you say about the different mix of people, and the implications to social “boxes”–it sounds like you still feel classifiable, yet somehow less boxed in in PP than in the U.S., or did I not quite understand that right? I like SBNR–that’s a term that is an option on one of the online dating apps I use, and tonight I’m going on a third date with a girl who also describes herself that way. I was just thinking about it this morning–I really have no idea what it means to her, and I’d like to ask tonight. SBNR can mean so many things to different people, yet it is the best I have found to describe myself for now :) I think you, DK, are kind of highlighting that the difference in a SBNR person is that there is a stronger focus towards the experience, towards feeling one’s feelings inside, towards finding beauty in our experiences of the outside…whether that happens to be PP or NC…seems that many of us are travelers, so we know that what we are experiencing outside may change, and we must remember to be our true selves wherever we happen to find ourselves next.